Dating extremely shy man
Nothing you can say or do will make an excessively insecure man, secure. And normally the person who ends up drained, will be you.From my last situation, I quickly learned that everything else could be great about a man; but insecurity will more than likely overshadow it all.Honestly I didn’t think any relationship, past or future, could get any worse than that until a few months ago when I dated an insecure man. He was intelligent, ambitious, and had a promising career that paid him extremely well.He had great conversation, opened doors, was considerate, and liked to talk about feelings.My last dating situation was probably one of the worst.In the past I have dealt with a cheating ex who tried to justify his doggish behavior.if you’re the sort of person who thrives on crowds.
You can tell an insecure man you love him, but he questions why.Insecure men come in all disguises, but most share the common traits of appearing sensitive and caring.To most women a caring man who listens is a hot commodity; but it quickly changes when his insecure traits take over the relationship. ” psychologist Joseph Nowenski, highlights some traits of an insecure man.These include a need for constant reassurance and approval, distrustful, smothering behavior (basically he wants to be with you all day, everyday).In addition, most insecure men are jealous or possessive. And while I shunned them off initially, it didn’t’ take long to realize his caring and sensitive ways were partly due to him being insecure.
And if I didn’t answer the phone when he called, he immediately accused me of cheating.